The Carer Stealing From My Elderly Nan |
to know that she was going into my Nan's
知道她要去我奶奶
house and doing it was a sickening
家做这件事,我感到恶心,
feeling this is a great example of how
这是一个很好的例子,说明
wrong you can be it was digital you
你是多么的错误,它是数码相机,你
would not have known it was a camera
不会知道它是相机,
they must be fueled by rage I outsmarted
他们一定是怒不可遏,我智胜了
a thief
一个小偷
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my nan she's got a heart of gold she
我的奶奶有一颗金子般的心,她
will give anybody anything and do a
愿意给予任何人任何东西,
favor for anybody she's just a very
为任何人提供帮助,她是一个非常
lovely person she broke her hip not long
可爱的人,在我爷爷去世前不久,她的臀部骨折了,
before my granddad passed so then that's
所以那时
when the carers needed to come in four
护理人员需要四人来
to five times in the day starting from
每天从
morning to the late evening what we're
早上到晚上五次,我们
talking about now is the transitional
现在谈论的是
periods between the family taking care
家庭照顾
of their grand and now you've got the
孙辈的过渡期,现在
carers stepping into that trust bubble
护理人员进入信任泡沫,
she enjoys getting looked after they
她喜欢被照顾
were just lovely people and because
都是很可爱的人,因为
she'd never used to go outside a lot
她以前很少出门,所以
they would share their life so it just
他们会分享他们的生活,这
made her feel like she's Incorporated in
让她觉得自己融入了
their life she really enjoyed that she
他们的生活,她真的很
loved the company she perhaps encourages
享受这种陪伴,也许她鼓励
a warm give and take relationship with
一种温暖的互利关系 和
her carers and I think for the grandkids
她的护理人员,我想还有孙子们
they're probably hugely relieved by this
他们可能对此感到非常欣慰,
every Thursday they would go to the
每个星期四他们都会去
shops and do her weekly shop for her and
商店帮她做每周的购物,
if they took her card they'll do it
如果他们拿了她的卡,他们会
either by pen or contact list but they'd
用笔或联系人名单来做,但他们
always bring the receipts back before
总是在购物前把收据带回来
she got pretty poorly I mean she used to
她身体很差,我的意思是她
go out with them they would go out for
过去常常和他们一起出去,他们会出去吃
lunch and then do their shopping and she
午饭,然后去购物,她
really enjoyed it it got her out of the
真的很喜欢这样,这让她走出了
house you felt she was in safe hands
家门,你觉得她在安全的手中,
because they know what they're doing
因为他们知道他们在做什么
with the bank stuff my nan had all
我奶奶有各种银行业务的
capabilities of that we never used to
能力,我们以前从来
get involved with her money until we
不管她的钱,直到我们
couldn't understand why she was spending
不明白她为什么花
so much she would draw money out to
那么多钱,她会把钱拿
bring home and put in her wallet and we
回家,放在钱包里,我们
were like how are you spending all this
就像
each week when you're only going out
你每周只出去
once a week she'd just be like oh I
一次,你是怎么花掉这么多钱的?她会说,哦,我
don't know I must have lost it or
不知道,我一定是把它弄丢了,或者
misplaced it or maybe I didn't draw that
放错了地方,或者我可能没有取那么
much out but like you are now and
多钱,但就像 你现在
there's you're taking this much out of
从银行取了这么多钱,这些
the bank where's the money going knowing
钱都去哪儿了,你知道
that you're not going nowhere she was
你哪儿也不会去,她
just quite blase about it bless her and
只是 对此漠不关心,愿上帝保佑她,
she was never bothered it could be that
她从不为此烦恼,可能是
grandmother is saying hey this is my
祖母在说,嘿,这是我的
life my money I do what I like I have
生活,我的钱,我做我喜欢的事,我有
freedom I have agency she may also have
自由,我有自主权,她可能也
begun to trust her new carers as her
开始信任她的新照顾者,就像我们的
friends we have a strong bond here what
朋友一样 这里有牢固的纽带,
are you worried about but I think the
你在担心什么,但我认为
grandmother at this point in time feels
祖母此时觉得
that maybe he her agency is being
也许她的代理权
questioned and she's covering up by
受到质疑,她通过
saying everything's fine my sister
说一切都很好来掩盖,我的妹妹
couldn't understand what she was
不明白她
spending so she started to take a little
花了多少钱,所以她开始
bit more interest in it and she said Nan
对此多一点兴趣,她说南,
what I'm going to do is start drawing
我要做的是开始
out a certain amount that you need and
提取你需要的一定数额,
we can keep an eye on it so then I had
我们可以密切关注,所以我
to take her for an appointment my sister
不得不带她去预约,我姐姐
was in there the previous day putting
前一天我往
money in her wallet she said did you get
她的钱包里放了点钱,她说你买了
a KFC I went yeah but there was only 10
肯德基吗?我说是的,但是
pounds or so in the wallet and she was
钱包里只有 10 英镑左右,她说
like well that's not right because I put
这不对,因为我
40 pound in there the day previous she
前一天在里面放了 40 英镑
said where's a 30 pound gone Nan had not
说 30 磅去哪了 Nan 没
been nowhere I don't understand how that
去过任何地方,我不明白那是怎么回事
money's just gone and that's when we
钱没了,那时我们就
knew something wasn't right we
知道有些不对劲,我们
approached my nan about where the
就找我奶奶问
money's going just asked her where do
钱去哪儿了,就问她
you think it's gone and she said you
你觉得钱去哪儿了,她说你
can't understand where it's gone we
不明白钱去哪儿了,我们也
didn't really tell her too much because
没告诉她 因为
she was such a caring and loving person
她是一个如此关心和充满爱心的人
and I think she had such a bond with the
,我认为她和
people that come into our house we
来我们家的人有如此深厚的感情,我们
didn't want her thinking oh is it that
不想让她想,哦,是那
person is it this person can I trust
个人吗,是这个人吗,我能相信
them that's not in our nature she's just
他们吗,他们不在我们的 自然,她
got such a loving nature we want to make
有如此可爱的天性,我们希望让
her feel as safe as possible and we can
她感到尽可能的安全,我们可以
deal with it without her having to worry
处理它,而她不必担心
about anything she was is happy for us
任何事情,她很高兴我们能
to look into it I think that as we get
调查这件事,我认为随着我们
older and feel more frail more fragile
年龄的增长,感觉 更脆弱,更脆弱,
more vulnerable we can pick up more
更脆弱,我们可以感受到更多的
feelings of panic and anxiety about the
恐慌和焦虑,对这个
world she has formed quite a powerful
世界,她
emotional bond with her carers and these
和她的护理人员形成了相当强烈的情感纽带,这些
people are trust figures in her life
人是她生命中值得信赖的人物,
it's a deeply delicate and fragile place
这是一个非常微妙和脆弱的地方,
to be and they handle it with a great
他们 非常敏感地处理这件事
deal of Sensitivity I had assumptions
我马上就有了假设
straight away my sister had assumptions
我姐姐也有假设
as well so after we've had a few
因此,在我们开了几次
meetings together we thought we need to
会之后,我们认为我们需要
do something about this
对此做点什么。
my nan at the time had about five
我奶奶当时有大约五个
different carers but if there was a
不同的护理人员,但如果有一个
carer off you may get the odd one that's
护理人员不在,你可能会得到一个奇怪的人
got to take over that you don't really
来接管你不需要的
meet as much we had maybe two in mind
见面的次数并不多,我们可能想到了两个,
because they they used to deal with her
因为他们过去经常处理她的
finances a lot more and they used to do
财务问题,也
a lot more with shopping wise with her
经常和她一起购物,
I'd say a good couple of months we were
我想说有几个月我们一直
keeping an eye on her finances and we
保持着 关注她的财务状况,我们
took it a little bit further then you
做了一些进一步的调查,然后你
've got lots of emotion riding on this
就会有很多情绪在这件事上,
but on the other hand you've got a lot
但另一方面,你有很多
of calm collected determination which is
冷静、镇定的决心,这
going to make or break this case I
将决定这个案子的成败,我
phoned the police station to see how to
打电话给 警察局看看如何
go about this because it's all new to us
处理这件事,因为这对我们来说都是新鲜事,
they told us what we had to do make sure
他们告诉我们要做什么,确保
we had enough evidence not falsely
我们有足够的证据,不要
accusing anybody we couldn't let anybody
诬告任何人,我们不能让任何人
know it was just between me and my
知道这只是我和我
sister and the police we needed to
妹妹之间的事, 我们需要警方
pinpoint who it was for us we didn't
确认凶手是谁,我们
want to give any suspicion away what
不想暴露任何嫌疑,而这
must be overriding all of this is the
必须压倒一切 这就是想要
desire to go in there and get that
进去抓那
person because how dare you do this to
个人的欲望,因为你怎么敢这样对
my beloved grandmother but they don't
我亲爱的祖母,但他们没有,
they stay back they hold their feelings
他们忍住了,他们抑制了自己的感情,
back which I think is incredible
我觉得这太不可思议了,
when went to the police station I think
当我去警察局的时候,我想
it was two police officers she said what
两名警察说,
we need to do first is get some sort of
我们首先要做的是安装某种
camera set up we wanted one that looked
相机,我们想要一个看起来
very like an alarm clock and it was
很像闹钟的相机,它是
digital you would not have known it was
数字的,你不会知道它是
a camera so it was just the best option
一台相机,所以这是最好的选择
for us because it was facing the right
因为我们的电视机正好对着
way for where she was sleeping as well
她睡觉的方向,而且
it was linked to my phone I could watch
它还与我的手机相连,我可以在
it anywhere really but I did like to do
任何地方观看,但我确实喜欢在
it when I was at Nan's but around the
奶奶家的时候看,但那是在
corner in the car so no one knew I was
拐角处的车里,所以没人知道 我在
there
那里,
we had to watch every carer I'd have to
我们必须观察每一个护理人员,我必须在
go before every visit of each carer make
每次护理人员来访之前去
sure there was money in our wallet how
确保我们的钱包里有钱,
much was in there and then I would sit
然后我会坐在
in my car turn the camera on my phone
我的车里打开手机上的相机
and wait for that carer to do her job
等待 等那位护理员做完她的工作
and I'll go home and wait for the next
,我就回家等下一位
carer to come out check the wallet
护理员出来,
before the CARICOM and it was quite
在加勒比共同体之前检查钱包,这是相当
painstaking but it was worth it the
辛苦的,但 值得的
carrot that we suspected she come in and
胡萝卜,我们怀疑她进来的时候
the money was there she left the money
钱就在那里,她把钱留在了
was there and we watched it on camera
那里,我们在摄像机里看到了,
and she didn't take nothing a couple
她什么也没拿,
days after another Kara come in and then
几天后,另一个卡拉进来了,
that's when we figured out it wasn't the
那时我们才明白过来 不是
carer we thought it was it wasn't the
我们想象中的照顾者,不是我们
carer we thought it was we all carry
想象中的照顾者,我们都对
stereotypes of who we think a

perpetrator is and how we're going to
是施暴者以及如何
catch them and this is a great example
抓住他们有刻板印象,这是一个很好的例子,
of how wrong you can be and had they not
说明你可能犯了多大的错误 如果他们没有
collected all their data in an incisive
以一种敏锐、
cool calm and forensic way they could
冷静和法医的方式收集所有数据,他们可能
have got it really wrong the carer that
会犯下大错,
we didn't expect it to be I was in the
我们没有想到护理人员会是这样的,我在
car and was watching from my phone when
车里用手机看的时候
I saw her take out the wallet out of the
看到了她 从包里拿出钱包
bag and then put her hand in the wallet
,然后把手伸进钱包,
took the money straight out into her
直接把钱放进
pocket very Brazen like it was a normal
口袋,非常厚颜无耻,就像是一件很正常的
thing I was in shock never suspected her
事情一样,我很震惊,从来没有怀疑过她,
I've automatically filmed my sister
我自动拍下了我妹妹,
because she would not have believed who
因为她不会 相信是谁,
it was either she had to come out to my
要么她那天晚上必须来我
house that evening and watch it on the
家,看
video for the her to even get used to it
视频,她才能习惯
家做这件事让我
feeling absolutely sicken and feeling
感到恶心,非常恶心,
but my nan had so much trust in her my
但我奶奶非常信任她,我
nan didn't even know we didn't let her
奶奶甚至不知道,我们没有让她
know my nan in this Cara had a very
知道我奶奶在这件事上 Cara 和她
close relationship they shared a lot
关系非常亲密,他们一起分享了很多东西,
together so my nan did absolutely really
所以我的奶奶非常非常
respect her and really love her
尊重她,非常爱她,这
absolutely sickening and feeling a
太令人恶心了,一种
sickening feeling that is the best word
令人恶心的感觉,这是最好的词,
for it like almost wanting to get rid of
就像几乎想摆脱
what she's just seen because it's
她刚刚看到的东西,因为它是
shocking
令人震惊的是,
once we found out who it was I needed to
当我们发现是谁时,我需要
then get as much evidence as possible we
尽可能多地收集证据,我们
had to take a lot more videos so must
不得不拍摄更多的视频,所以必须
have done about another 10 plus videos
拍摄另外10多个
about taking money so at one point the
关于拿钱的视频,所以在某一时刻,
camera was playing up so me and my
摄像机播放了视频,所以我和 我
husband had to run out to my land and
丈夫必须跑到我的土地上,
get the camera set up and then to start
把相机架好,然后开始拍摄,
and Caro we bumped into her at the front
我们在前门碰到了卡罗
gate and because we both knew it was her
,因为我们都知道那是她,
I had to make it out like we were just I
所以我必须假装我们只是被
told what the web was horrendous today
告知了什么 今天的网络太可怕了,
isn't it and she was like yeah I can't
不是吗?她说,是的,我不敢
believe it and then I said we're leaving
相信。 然后我说我们
now now I said because she's still
现在就走,我说因为她还在
asleep and she said no that's fine and
睡觉,她说没关系,
as soon as we got in the car I turned my
我们一上车,我就
phone on and she went straight into my
打开了手机,她就直接去了我
Nan's room and took the money out within
奶奶的房间,几秒钟内就把钱拿走了
seconds of speaking to us because we
因为我们
only just got into the car I had to keep
才刚上车,所以我必须保持
a cool I had to keep it cool they must
冷静,我必须保持冷静,他们一定
be fueled by rage what great control
是怒不可遏,多么伟大的控制力,
what great self-control
多么伟大的自我控制力,我很
comfortable that I was working on it
舒服,我正在努力,
come over to my house went through all
来我家吧 我们一起看了所有的
the footage together he filmed me when
录像,他上台后拍了我,
he got to the stage she said yes that's
她说是的,
enough evidence he wanted to set her up
证据就足够了,他想
then with their money 15 pound but he
用他们的 15 英镑的钱陷害她,但他
marked it with one of his pens so we put
用一支笔在上面做了记号,所以我们把
the money in the wallet we was doing a
钱放进了钱包 当时我们
Stakeout in the car I was down the road
在车里进行监视,我在路上,
sat in the car on my phone the policeman
坐在车里打电话,警察
was up the road in the car and as soon
在路上的车里,
as I seen the money being taken I give
当我看到钱被拿走时,我向
the policeman the nod to say that it's
警察点头示意,说
okay to go in and arrest her and she
没关系 进去逮捕她,她
come out of the door and the policeman
出了门,警察
and the police lady come and arrested
和女警察来了,逮捕了她
her outside check the money first and
她先在​​外面检查钱,
they put the light on it and he said
他们把灯点亮了,他说
that note was what we've marked to set
那张纸条是我们给你做的标记
you up and you've took it why have you
,你拿走了,你为什么
got this money she didn't answer first
拿到这笔钱,她先没有回答,
and then she made up a few different
然后她就说 她编了几个不同的
stories and she just couldn't keep her
故事,但她的故事完全不
story the same at all she got arrested
一样了,她被逮捕了,
directs on my ninth house then it is a
直接针对我的第九个房子,这是一个
very Bittersweet moment on the one hand
苦乐参半的时刻,一方面
they've got her but on the other hand
他们抓住了她,但另一方面
they've got to now sit down with their
他们 现在我必须坐下来和他们的
grandmother and tell her exactly exactly
祖母谈谈,告诉她到底
what has been going on I went straight
发生了什么事,我直接
into my Nan's house I sat down on the
去了我奶奶的房子,坐在
bed and I told her what happened and she
床上,告诉她发生了什么事,她
was in tears and it's not a site I'd
哭了,这不是我
like to see again
喜欢再次看到
she got a six-month prison term
她被判处六个月
suspended for two years paid court fees
监禁,缓刑两年,支付了法庭费用,
and quite a few hours on paid work she's
并从事了相当多的有偿工作,她
never allowed to be a carer and it will
从未被允许成为一名护理人员,这将
be on her record now what the
记录在她的记录中,而
grandmother also has at this point in
祖母此时也有同样的记录
her life is two fantastic granddaughters
她生命中有两个很棒的孙女,
who are absolutely there 100 of the time
她们 100% 的时间都在
to take care of her
照顾她